So you have fallen for an Australian guy? It is easy to do so as Australian (Aussies as they are popularly known) men are very attractive from their gorgeous accents, to their good looks and their amazing sense of humour.
After identifying your unflinching romantic feelings for an Australian guy, you have now decided to try to earn his affection and impress him.
It will not be easy as Australians are known for having a terrible work-life balance and the country is known for their terrible dating culture, but never fear.
You can absolutely attract your Australian guy into your life with these simple tips. Below, you will find a list of super helpful tips that will get you through all the stages of how to impress an Australian guy.
At the end of this article, you will understand exactly which tips you can use to get the man you want. Some of these tips may not be comfortable, but precious things are hard-won.
Go into it with the full confidence that you will get what you want and you will definitely finish this with the regard of the man you have feelings for. Continue reading to get these tips!
1. Be Confident!
Ever heard the phrase, ‘confidence is sexy?’ Well, it is absolutely true and is one of the best things values you can have. Not only will it have a positive influence on your life, but it will also attract you to the Australian man of your choice.
Confidence is the greatest aphrodisiac known to man, and to impress your Australian beau, you will need more than a helping of confidence.
Something you should know (and which you probably don’t know) is that a lack of confidence shows up in every area of your life and your body language.
It is practically impossible to hide it or to mask it. Some people do manage to mask it for a short time, but it is eventually revealed in the end.
Instead of trying to fake confidence until you make it, change aspects of your life that bring down your self-confidence and work on growing it instead.
There are certain things that have been found to boost the mood, your self-esteem, and subsequently your self-confidence, and you should try these to make yourself better.
Some of them include working out, changing your wardrobe, getting a new haircut, and so many other things that can significantly improve your mood.
Some obvious ways to do a self-confidence check on yourself is to check if people’s words have a reaction on you, if you walk into a room with your back straight or bent, and if you fear criticism.
If you are confident in our own self and aware of your charms as a woman, then the chances are high that your Australian beau will see these signs in you and be very impressed.
2. Dress Attractively!
Australian men, and all men really, like women who look nice. You may not have tons of makeup on or wear designer clothes, but if you look like you put some effort into your appearance, that will earn you notice from your Australian beau.
Think about it, would you want to be with someone who does not put some thought into their dressing or not? Would you be impressed with a man who looked like he paid no attention to his looks, even as he showed you that he is interested in you?
If your answer is no, then why do you think your Australian beau will be impressed with you dressing shabbily every time you meet him?
Wear clothes that fit your body type, use a bit of makeup to improve the look of your face, and do your best to look as good as you can.
If he sees that you have put so much effort into looking your best for him, he will be happy with your efforts and be incredibly impressed with you.
3. Stroke His Ego!
Australian guys love to have their ego stroked but not too much. They are a bit on the self-absorbed side so they absolutely want you to stroke their ego.
Tell them the things that you like about them and generally make them feel good about themselves. They love that you love the way that they look and they constantly want to hear it from you.
To impress your Australian guy then, you have to be willing to cast your pride aside and be vulnerable. Use your words and express yourself openly. Tell him that he looks good once in a while, and buy him his favourite gifts.
You will make him feel very good, he will appreciate you for it and will be very impressed with you. You have to be very careful though. As previously stated, Australian guys can be a bit self-absorbed so some of your compliments may bounce off his skin. On the other hand, if you don’t compliment them at all, you will bruise their ego.
What this effectively means is that you need to find a healthy balance between giving him compliments and holding back. Doing this will keep you mysterious and interesting and will definitely impress him.
4. Be Independent!
Men – and Australian men in particular – like their women to be independent. There is a certain allure about being with someone because they want to be with you and not because they have to.
You don’t have to constantly question their presence in your life and you can just be with them. Australian men enjoy having this security when they are with someone that they are with.
Like any other kind of man in the world, they want to feel like they are precious and were chosen. Make some gestures towards him that let him know that you are as invested in your relationship.
Plan random dates once in a while, pay for half (or all) of the date when you go out, and be spontaneous. You will definitely hold his attention and he will be incredibly impressed with you.
5. Develop An Attraction To Sports!
You would have probably noticed it by now but Australian men have an intense connection to sports. They spend the majority of their time watching sports, talking about it, betting on it, and sharing opinions on sports.
Presumably, this will take a lot of his time and attention. If you are not willing to make sacrifices, then you may as well say goodbye!
The perfect way to fit into his life and spend more time with your Australian man is by developing an interest in the things that he likes so that you both can have more in common.
By making the effort to fall in love with sports, you are showing him that you value him enough to try to get used to his life. More importantly, you will both be able to spend a lot of time together, fostering your bond and growing closer together.
While getting used to this part of his life, you may even realize a love for sports that you didn’t know you felt before. Sometimes, you don’t know what you love or actually don’t love until you try it out.
So, in order to wedge yourself deep into his heart and earn his affection, try becoming a sports fan. He’ll be incredibly impressed.
6. Don’t Try To Take Over His Life!
Australian men are known to be tough, even in the face of intense discomfort and unease. While they will appreciate you checking in and doing your best to be there for them, they certainly won’t tolerate you being pushy…about anything.
You can count on him being tough, after all, an incredible amount of Australian men enjoy riding the waves. It takes certain grit to stare a high wave coming for you while surfing and stay steady.
On the other hand, Australian men can be incredibly soft on the inside, often not knowing exactly how to open up and seek help. The rate of suicide for male suicide in Australia is very high, three times as that of females.
So, while he won’t appreciate you barging into his life and trying to take over, he will definitely appreciate a little heart to heart from time to time. You don’t have to do anything overwhelming.
Just check up on him from time and time and ensure that his mind and his body are still connected. Assure him that you are there for him while taking great care to respect his boundaries.
He will definitely respect you for this and will cherish the relationship between you two. He will particularly appreciate the fact that he can open up to you, making for a stronger relationship between you two. As previously stated though, don’t crowd him. That will not help your relationship in any way.
7. Respect His Sporting Calendar!
As previously mentioned, your Australian beau loves sports. He cannot get enough of it, no matter which sports he’s watching. In case you did not know, different seasons come with different sports.
In the summer, it is Cricket season while in winter, football and Rugby rule the season. These sports do not happen without some food to make every event interesting. For every event, there are meat pies, snacks and every other type of food that make the event interesting.
January is for tennis, March brings the Formula One. In September, horse races grab the attention of the nation, while in December, yacht races are in season.
To preserve your relationship with him, don’t get in the way of relationship with sports. Better still, you can try to develop a love for sports as suggested earlier and enjoy this time with him.
If that is not an option, then don’t stand in his way. Let him enjoy the time with his friends and with his favourite sports. He will appreciate your understanding of this relationship and will be incredibly impressed with you.
More importantly, this will improve the relationship between you.
8. Don’t Try To Get In The Way Of His Relationship With His Friends!
Australian guys are very friendly so the chances are high that he had a large group of friends way before you met him. They most likely do everything together – enjoy sports together, have inside jokes, drink together, and probably have a business idea or two together. It will probably drive you crazy, the love that he has for his friends, and will probably make you jealous.
One of the worst mistakes that you can make is to try to get in the way of his relationship with his friends. You need to remind yourself that those are his ‘mates’ and the relationship he will have with you is so completely different from the one you both share.
Instead of getting jealous, try to form better relationships with your Australian beau and his friends. Men love it when their loved one has a great relationship with their friends and family.
Endearing yourself to his friends will get you closer to your beau and earn you a spot in his heart. It will also impress him greatly that you get along with his friends.
9. Develop A Great Sense Of Humour!
If your Australian beau says somewhat funny things with a straight face, he is probably joking and if you take offence with his jokes, he can possibly take it as you both being incompatible.
Australian guys have a wicked sense of humour and if you find it hard to understand his jokes, it will be hard for you two to get along. The Australian man has a dry and advanced sense of humour. More importantly, he likes to make jokes.
If your sense of humour is not as developed as his, then this is something you may want to work on. An ability to make jokes between yourselves can improve your relationship and help to develop your bond.
Even better, if you have inside jokes, you become even more than romantic partners, you become friends too which can improve your bond.
Work on your sense of humour by reading more books, watching more comedies and trying to understand his jokes. He will be very impressed by you for this and it will improve your relationship. Even if it does not, you will have developed a great sense of humour that will come in handy in the future.
10. Be Yourself Whenever You Are Around Him!
The most important way to make an Australian man impressed with you is by being yourself at all times. There is simply no need to put on airs or to act in a manner that you are not used to all to attract him.
That is not what he appreciates about a woman. Not at all. Feel free to let your hair down and act like you normally would. Join him in gulping down beer and feel free swear and talk about whatever you wish in front of him however you wish to do so.
He definitely won’t mind and you will feel better about it, knowing that he is seeing your real self. Additionally, when you are free around him, you encourage him to be free with you which makes the bond between you two even stronger.
One final thing to note while trying to impress an Australian guy is this – you should never be nervous to meet his family. They are all relaxed and down to earth and are amongst the best people you can meet.
The chances are high that they will welcome with open arms as one of their own, so there really is nothing to be anxious about. Treat this meeting like you would treat one with his friends and just be calm and relaxed.
When he sees how relaxed you are with his family, and how much they love you, then his heart will be open to you, leaving no chance of anything coming between you two. This is when you have succeeded at conquering his heart, winning him over, and impressing him with your tenacity and sacrifice.
Never fear though, that while you make sacrifices for an Australian man, that he is not making any in return. Australian men are extremely loving and selfless and will do almost anything it takes in order to keep you happy and satisfied.
So, never fear when it comes to your Australian man. Jump in with all you have got but keep your eyes open.
Sometimes, things don’t work out how he hoped that they would. Even though you may put in all the efforts to win your Australian guy over, you might not be compatible and he may still end up unimpressed with you in spite of your efforts.
Don’t let this reduce your self-confidence and consider the process as a learning curve and a project that failed. After all, you would have left the situation with a lot more skills than you had when you started, like an improved sense of humour, and a new awareness of how Australian guys are.
Who knows? You may need it for your next Australian partner! Thanks for reading!
Summary!
- Be confident!
- Dress Attractively!
- Stroke His Ego!
- Be Independent!
- Develop An Attraction To Sports!
- Don’t Try To Take Over His Life!
- Respect His Sporting Calendar!
- Don’t Try To Get The Way Of His Relationship With His Friends!
- Develop A Great Sense Of Humour!
- Be Yourself Whenever You Are Around Him!