It is easy to see that the dating world has become so hard and is only getting more competitive. So many women are spending too much worrying about men who show interest in them but suddenly decide to start chasing someone else.
This cycle causes some women to believe it is their fault and then starts to mess with their self-esteem. Maybe this is you and this cycle is already affecting your physical and mental health so now you are looking for solutions t this problem and ways to make the man you like chase you until he commits to you.
You will be glad to know that there are tips and tricks that you can use to snag attention and make the guy you like return your affection without him ever knowing that you are subtly pushing him towards it.
No longer does your open heart have to lead to failed relationships with men that always end up ditching you for the more coy women who know how to play these games better than you do.
There several tips and tricks that you can use to ensure that his attention never leaves you and that he chases you until he commits.
There are several ways that you can make yourself irresistible to a man, enough that he will chase you until he eventually commits to you. There are different types of women: those who already have the subconscious knowledge of these tips and tricks, and others like you, who need extra tips to get what you want.
Which category you fall into does not matter. All that does matter is that you use these tips below to attract the attention of the man that you love and get him to chase you until he commits to you.
1. Be Mysterious!
Learn to keep your secrets to yourself. Don’t show off all your cards at the beginning. Leave breadcrumbs for him to follow until he finally commits to you. Don’t jump straight into telling him everything the first time you see him. It will send the wrong signal as he will think you are that way with everyone which is unattractive.
Instead of spilling everything to him the first few times you meet, let him into your life little by little. Doing this will keep him interested in you because he will be curious to see which layer you will peel off next.
2. Learn How To Flirt!
This is something that you need to master if you want him to follow you around like a dog on a leash. Men love women who know how to flirt because they think that these women will be great in bed. The truth does not matter, only the illusion of it, so if you don’t know how to already, learn how to flirt.
Flirt from time to time but you need to make him subtle. You don’t want to come across as being too desperate. Make eye contact, smile at him, and be subtle.
Use your body language to communicate your interest to him. If he reciprocates your actions, then it means he is interested, right?
3. Play Hard To Get!
Nothing drives a guy away faster than him thinking you will be an easy catch. If you are too available, then it sends a message to him that you are in desperate need of attention. Instead of doing this, keep them at a distance and play hard to get.
Don’t immediately answer calls or texts, let him know that you are busy with other things in your life, that you have other things to pay attention to apart from him.
This will ignite his hunger for you and make him chase you with a new hunger. Even after you have committed to each other, he will value you more because he knows how much work he had to do in order to figure you out.
4. Don’t Do The Chasing!
One of the cardinal rules in dating and relationships is that you must never ever chase a man. There is nothing fascinating or alluring about a woman who is so easy to get that she will also chase a man. There is simply nothing interesting about chasing such a woman.
To make yourself irresistible to a man, you must ignore him and play hard to get in order to keep his attention. The harder it is to win you over, the more he will work for your attention.
It is a simple trick but it works most of the time. You should be careful not to chase him away though. Leave him breadcrumbs so that he knows that you are interested in him, just not as available as he expects.
5. Focus On Being The Best Version Of Yourself!
The best way to get a guy to keep chasing you until he commits is to show him that you don’t need him. Focus on yourself and become better at the things you are passionate about.
If he sees that you have a strong support system around you, then he will want to chase you and become a part of your inner circle.
It is also well known that guys have more respect for women who live a happier and balanced life. Women who are clingy and needy tend to be too much work for men and they are not interested in chasing women like that these days.
So, the best thing you can do for yourself and your relationship life is to focus on making yourself a better person and to find more satisfaction in your life.
6. Learn To Be Patient!
You probably want him to realize his feelings right now and immediately commit to you, but patience is one the best things you can have right now. Men like to take their time when it comes to matters of the heart.
He will want to be completely sure that his feelings are real. This is a good thing as it means that your relationship will stand the test of time. After all, good things don’t happen overnight.
Don’t become too clingy and inpatient as this will cause him to lose interest in you. He wants a woman who will love and cherish him but will also respect herself as well.
7. Ignore Him But In A Smart Way!
One of the most tried and true ways of getting a man’s attention is to ignore him. This especially works for men who are proud and who are used to getting attention. It happens all the time in romance movies and is taken right out of real-life situations.
After all, this is a tried and true method to ensure that a guy constantly tries to get your attention.
If you ignore him and make him believe that you are harboring feelings for someone else, it will confuse him and make him double his efforts to get your attention.
8. Boost His Ego!
One of the easiest ways to grab a guy’s attention and make yourself look irresistible to him is to boost his ego. Compliment him frequently and let him think he is in charge of the big things in your relationship.
Praise him when he does things for you. Saying thank you or rewarding him with a small gift can go a long way towards making him see you in a more favorable light.
He will appreciate your thoughtfulness and will never want to let you go. This is one of the most simple things that guys love, and all without much effort from you.
9. Be Confident!
Men love a woman who is aware of her own power. You should be able to combine self-efficacy and self-respect and make them work to your benefit.
Confidence radiates from every bit of you – from the clothes you wear to how you look to the things you say and how you carry yourself.
He will easily pick up your confidence which will be like an aphrodisiac. He will chase you until you give in. So, if this is an area where you are lacking, you should work on yourself and build your self-confidence both for the relationship and for yourself.
10. Show Him That You Have Options!
The worst mistake you can make is to let other men go just because you have found one man that you like. Never ever do that. If he sees that you are glued to him all the time, then instead of chasing you, he will look for ways to run away from you.
Instead of being clingy and overly attached to him, show him that you have other options. Invite someone else to a party you know he will be at and flirt with your date in front of him.
Let him know that he has competition and you won’t easily fall into his lap. This will spur possessive tendencies in him and he will want to work for the right to call you his partner.
11. Show Him That You Are Interested In Him!
If you want to make a guy chase you, then you must show him that you are interested in him. You cannot keep ignoring him and showing off other men without giving him a little sign that you are interested in him.
He will not know whether you are interested or not and may not bother investing in the effort. Instead, show him that you are interested in asking him questions and hanging out with him occasionally.
While you are doing this though, don’t go overboard. Always remember not to smother him and don’t come across as too needy. Find balance in the relationship and he will not be able to resist you.
12. Use Social Media To Show Off Your Exciting Life!
This is perfect if he follows you on social media. Guys don’t like a woman who sits around waiting for a man to fill their life with color.
Whether you are introverted or extroverted, you should live a full and exciting life and share some snippets of that on social media. He will be impressed with your happy and bubbly personality and will want to be a part of your life because of this.
Don’t go overboard by spending too much time on social media or he will think you don’t occupy yourself with anything else.
13. Show Him That You Are Willing To Leave!
You need to constantly set healthy boundaries for yourself and respect them. If you don’t respect your boundaries, then others will constantly walk all over you.
You must show him that you are willing to cut him out of your life if he does not live up to your expectations. Constantly remind yourself that you deserve only the best and remind him of that too.
If you let one guy treat you as less than you should, then you will grow accustomed to being treated that way. He is attracted to your self-confidence, among other things about you. If the relationship is not serving you anymore, then don’t be afraid to walk away.
14. Don’t Rush Into Intimacy With Him!
One of the worst things to do is to sleep with him on your first date. It is too early to do this and once he has gotten what he wants, then the chase will simply be over as he will lose interest in you.
Delay this step by at least a few months by telling him that you are not ready. When you feel comfortable with him, then you can give in.
Ensure that this is something that you are completely ready for this and you are not doing this because it is something that you think will make him stay with you. Do it because you want to and for any other reason.
15. Set High Standards For Yourself!
When you set high standards for yourself, then you are showing a man how to treat you. If your standards are too low, then you won’t even be attractive to the type of man that you want to attract.
Outline the things that you will accept from a man and the things you absolutely won’t accept. If a man sees that you will not accept anything less than what you’ve set out for yourself then he will respect you even more and want to commit to you.
16. Use Reverse Psychology!
Use reverse psychology to get everything you want from him. If he says he only wants to be friends and you agree to that, then he will be confused because he will expect you to argue.
Use reverse psychology to get everything you want from a man by telling him everything you don’t want so he unconsciously begins to provide them for you.
17. Enjoy Time Away From Him!
Spend your time away from him doing the things you love. Men love women who can be self-sufficient and who have their own lives outside of their relationships.
If you enjoy bar hopping or going out to restaurants, you should spend more time with friends doing these things. The time away from him will make him miss you more. He will be the one to call you after a while in order to ask you what you are doing.
18. Show Off Your Unique Qualities!
If you show off unique qualities that make a guy feel like he can have a wonderful life with you, then he will definitely want to chase you.
This is why you need to work hard to be an enviable woman who excels in all areas of her life and also knows how to have fun.
Invest your time and energy into maintaining a balance in all areas of your life and you will look irresistible.
19. Be A Strong Woman!
Men usually want to have a strong woman by their side, someone who can handle life’s problems with them. They don’t want someone who will crumble under life’s pressures.
Build your inner strength and show him that you are exactly the type of woman he needs to weather life’s storms.
20. Make Friends With His Friends!
If you have mutual friends, then it is best to be more friendly towards them. They will definitely talk about you if he’s considering the chase and having his friends on your side is definitely a plus.
The tips and tricks above are sure to help you land any man you want without putting in too much work. All you have to do is to use these tricks to ensure that he chases you without realizing that you’re steering him to where you want him to be.
One thing to remember is that while doing everything you’re doing to make him fall head over heels for you. Another thing to remember is that even after you get him to commit to you, the chase never really ends.
You both need to continue putting in the work in order to ensure that your relationship lasts and stands the test of time. Let your guard down around him, he’s your partner after all, but make sure that you continue to make him feel special in the relationship while working on your own personal growth.